I give myself some pep talk in the dressing room: Frederik, watch out! Lots of things will trigger you during the game. You’re going to make decisions who some will not agree with and they will shout unpleasant things at you. So I tell ...
stop taking things personally 别把事情往心里去 heads or tails 正面还是反面 tailgate v.紧跟一辆车行驶 referee n.裁判员 pep talk 鼓励的话 clumsy adj,笨拙的 ginger 姜黄色 raw nerve 痛处、敏感神经
What you need to do is realize that everything you know is an image inside your mind, it's feelings, if you talk about fire you can smell the smoke you can hear the crackling, you can see the flames, so what you do, is you go into ...
And personally, I hope that I can keep looking for those ways in so I can experience the depth and the richness of someone else's ideas every chance I get to hear them. -所以现在,你在这个屋子里 听到这一切的感受是怎么样的? 每个对话中, 都可能有更深层次的含义 里面一层又一层的深意, ...
How close are you personally to what you're making light of? 先从意识到这不是我自己的事开始。所以别问我听起来是不是很好笑?相反,要问:其他人对此有什么感觉?永远别去打压他人,也就是说,别去嘲笑比你社会地位低的人。务必要记得检查你们的距离。你自身与你打趣的对象有多亲近? I can make fun of ...
or the equivalent in other industries — the problem, I am convinced, is that women are dropping out. Now people talk about this a lot, and they talk about things like flextime and mentoring and programs companies should have to train women. I want to talk about none of that today, even...
HOW TO BECOME HAPPY BY NOT TAKING THINGS PERSONALLY? You are standing at the kickoff of the match of your life, the match by which you will learn how to stop taking things personally. So as a referee, I brought my coin for the toss and every coin has two sides: heads or tails. And...
we talkde so much what about our friendship and other interesting things.all of us thought that night was very pricesuress 我现在很难忘记和朋友在一起度过的那个圣诞晚会。 这个圣诞节,我邀请了一些朋友到我家来一起庆祝圣诞节,我们将房子装饰了一下,就像一个魔法世界。说实话,我们还都没有过这样的经历...
researchers asked people toassesstheir running abilities. They found thatparticipants spontaneously comparedthemselves with the best runner they could think of and deemed themselves not so great. The researchers thenpromptedtheparticipantsto list the top 10 runners they knew personally. By reflecting on ...
I'm going to talk to you about optimism -- or more precisely, the optimism bias. It's a cognitive illusion that we've been studying in my lab for the past few years, and 80 percent of us have it. 今天我讲演的主题是乐观——准确的说,乐观的偏见。 过去的几年中我们都在实验室中研究这...