But it was also the tone of how she asked the question: apropos of nothing, like she didn't even care about the answer, as though she just wanted to talk to me. I did not know what to say. I said, "Yes." I did not even turn my...
OK, so today I want to talk about how we talk about love. And specifically, I want to talk about what's wrong with how we talk about love. Most of us will probably fall in love a few times over the course of our lives, ...
If no two people are the same, no two people's love is the same either. So, in every loving relationship, there's a lot to talk about and partners should be open to that, or the relationship probably won't last. Love is always up for discussion and, sure, under construction. So, ...
So, how did this happen?How have we come to associate love with great pain and suffering?And why do we talk about this ostensibly good experienceas if we are victims?These are difficult questions,but I have some theories.And to think this through,I want to focus on one metaphor in parti...
and at some point -- there will always be magic to love, 一定程度上,爱情总是神秘的, but I think I will come closer to understanding 但我相信我会逐步接近问题的答案—— why it is you can walk into a room 当你走进一间房间时, and everybody is from your background, 每一个人都是...
And that instigated me to come out openly and talk about myself. 这就是他:(视频)Manvenddra王子:我认为非常有必要打破我们社会中存在的耻辱感和歧视。这促使我公开出柜讲述自己。 Whether we are gay, we are lesbian, we are transgender, bisexual or whatever sexual minority we come from, we have ...
And specifically.I want to talk about what' s wrong.with how we talk about love.Most of us will probably fall in love a few times.over the course of our lives.and in the English language, this metaphor, falling.is really the main way that we talk about that experience.I ...
01 如何掌控你的自由时间 这个演讲最让我触动的就是：没时间 = 不重要。我曾经约一个朋友吃饭，他...
So a few months ago, I was giving a talk at a small liberal arts college, and a student came up to me afterwards and he said, kind of shyly, 'So, I tried your study, and it didn't work.' He seemed a little mystified by this. 'You mean, you didn't fall in love with the ...
It's still hard. Love still feels totally maddening and crushing some days, and when I feel really frustrated, I have to remind myself: my job in this relationship is to talk to my partner about what I want to make together. This isn't easy, either. But it's just so much better ...