Recovering from this infidelityrequires both spouses to offer empathy for the other. It also requires each of them to not wallow in their own self-pity. Yes, they both feel terrible about what has happened to them. But consider the feelings of the other person. The more you both can focus...
If you’re waiting for someone else to validate you and bring you joy, you’re going to be disappointed. We are selfish beings, and no matter how muchlovesomeone has for you, they will come up short from time to time. But how does this help you to heal from insecurity after infidelity?
If the decision is to stay, how to forgive and move forward. How did the affair become possible? For the relationship to heal, and for there to be any chance of forgiveness, there has to be an understanding of how both people may have contributed to the problem. What was missing in th...
When you’re dealing with something as life-changing as infidelity, this type of news can take a toll on youemotionally as well as physically. For instance, you may want to shut out the outside world and not see or talk to anyone. You may notice that you have difficulty concentrating at...
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Survive Infidelity: What are the Odds? You got married because you wanted to live many long, happy years with your spouse. Never in your wildest dreams (or nightmares) could you have imagined your spouse cheating on you with another man/woman. But… BAM!
Whether you're married or have just started seeing someone, infidelity rates are on the rise and have increased over 40% in the last 20 years, so you have all the right to be worried. Perhaps you want to know if he's texting other women behind your back? Or whether he has active Ti...
One of the things that are often striking for couples who do the work to recover from infidelity, gain an understanding of what happened and what they need to do to change, and move through that process is that the pain of the infidelity still crops up and can be problematic to the rela...
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My own anecdote speaks of the years I spent resenting my mother’s infidelity. Trying to figure out a reason for her actions ultimately led to me deciding that the simple reason was that she wanted to get away from the disappointing daughter she had raised. Maybe my family would have been...