something different or unknown can be intimidating. Sometimes we do it as a way to bond with friends. Sometimes we judge because we are insecure — we want to feel good by making others feel bad. This behavior has to stop. By judging our fellow human ...
If you are able to hold space for yourself, more and more of the pain body will come up. I do not want to sugarcoat the fact that this will be difficult.It’s some of the most difficult yet beneficial work one can do. There’s a reason why you repressed all this stuff: You didn...
It is important to listen to feedback that you are critical of others because many people who are critical of others do not think they are being that way. If you get feedback that you are critical of others you need to take it seriously due to the potential damage to yourself and other...
Chances are others are thinking of their own faults and foibles too. So tell a funny joke to yourself or others. Do a silly dance before you walk in the door of a party or event to loosen up your mood. A sense of humor is a great antidote to insecurity. Devoreaux Walton Lifestyle ...
日出之前(before sunrise)台词翻译男主角:Ethan Hawke女主角:Julie Delpy导演:Richard Linklater一、 在火车上相识(一对中年夫妻在用德语吵架,声音越来越响,坐在过道对面的女主角看不进书,皱眉,拿包离开,来到男主角过道的对面,瞥了男主角一眼后,坐下看书。男主角很想搭讪,但没有勇气,在那里犹豫。这时中年夫妻从...
Why do Moms compare? When a mom convinces herself that her way is the right or best way, she can then enter competitive territory where she may judge others for their parenting style and their lifestyle choices. Even if you’re not judging another mom in a negative way, you still may ...
What I do is work every day to soften my attitude and develop wisdom by studying and meditating. A soft heart and wise mind is not a weakness, it never was. On the contrary, I feel like I have a stronger backbone to do what’s right for myself and others. I am not as easily sw...
You asked how to do better. Specifically: I desperately need help. I've struggled with this bad habit for years. Tricks like blocking websites hasn't worked. I want to get to the root of the problem. What can I do to change my bad habits and improve my productivity at work? I ...
What I do know is that struggling to love myself makes showing up in the world a big challenge. Showing up as my authentic self requires so much effort. In fact it’s nearly impossible when I don’t feel self-love. I strongly feel that lack of self-love holds us back. It prevents...
Your worth has nothing to do with how others treat you. How others treat us is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. Part of the reason we hold on to those who“don’t care”is because it reinforces a belief we have about our self-worth. ...