Asking for a raise by itself is not likely to conflict with wise mind. But suppose your motive isI want a raise because my coworker got one and I don’t think it’s fair. Suddenly the emotional content ofit’s not fairmay interfere with your ability to use the skill of effectiveness....
Participating is the third what skill. Usually participating happens spontaneously when we join in an activity with others such as making a meal, playing a game, or dancing. We can also make a conscious choice to participate in an activity, either alone or with others, such as walking the d...