I have emailed them and told me it's not necessary to stop sending me fake messages to no avail. I think it's automated designed to make people feel they are having more success than they really are. The sad part is the site doesn't need to do this, I have had good dates from ...
Yes, it can take a lot of patience and effort to start talking to someone you really hit it off with. But that patience and effort is kind of essential for making an authentic connection. Sending a pre-written "Want to chat sometime?" selected from a bulleted list doesn't go a long...