If one’s child is begging them to watch TV when it is homework time, one should simply say, “You need to stop whining and go do your homework.” If the begging continues say, “You can stop begging right now or you can go to time out. What is your choice?” If the child is ...
The hurt, not the learning opportunity, becomes the message.– Carl Pickhardt, Stop the Screaming: How to Turn Angry Conflict With Your Child into Positive Communication Toss it. Spanking is a temporary solution that does more harm than good. It "works" because it's external control over a ...
“Oh, I know you are having so much fun with the dog and it’s hard to stop, but it’s time. What a bummer! You are really upset and disappointed that it’s bedtime. I know the feeling.” As completely counterintuitive as this is for most of us, it works. The more you are ...
And if this person was anything like me, they probably felt pretty awful when it was all over. Once the moment has passed and I have had my little tantrum, I’m ashamed of the spectacle I have made. Losing control is not a proud moment for anyone. But I have gotten a lot better ...
Until the lock is released, we can call multiple methods without the interference of another thread. Note, it does not prevent a thread switch but the other thread will be blocked from interfering 它在对象和显示器实际上拿着一把锁它横跨多条螺纹。 直到发布锁,我们可以叫多个方法,不用另一条螺纹...
Saying action words like “stop,”“no,” and don’t” are not only confusing for a child, but don’t give any clear directions about what you want behavior you’d like them to change. Adults need to clearly explain to the child what you want them to stop doing and why so they und...
"I've been working hard not to yell at my kids. But sometimes I just can't help it. I explode, and then I feel so guilty. I know it isn't really what my kids are doing, it's just me, having a hard day. Is it really possible to stop yelling? What's the secret?"Yes, it...
Will this happen? Probably not. Techbros believe that for every problem there's a purely technical solution that just happens to match their own skillset. Also, despite your own knowledge of your own specific needs, your "failure" to follow their plan is because you don't understand ...
An Easy Solution I know that I want some time to cool down, to gather myself, to get rid of the emotion. But you know what? Life is busy. I have 4 kids. I can’t just run to my bedroom for half an hour. As much as I’d like to. ...
called in to have a conversation, as if we were being blamed,” DeLoura remembered. “But to me, I saw it more as a ‘cover all your bases’ situation. If you’re not sure what it is that’s causing a thing, you want to make sure you talk to everybody and you learn eve...