Both are fine grammatically, but it appears that you are aiming for a relatively formal setting in which case "Could" is slightly more formal-sounding. Neither would be incorrect, however. Could you or can you difference? To summarize, 'can' is the present tense version of the word and '...
Which of the following would be considered a "feminine" trait on the Ben Sex Role Inventory? (a) ambitious (b) self-reliant (c) child-like (d) analytical. Bem Sex-Role Inventory: The Bem Sex-Role Inventory (BSRI)...
all while the real issue, the system itself, stays untouched and intact. and that’s what frustrates me most about this whole conversation. because this was never about men versus women. it’s about a world designed with only some bodies, some jobs, and some risks in mind — while ...
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On the subject of "If I hadn't gone there" versus "Had I not gone there", I'd say that "If I hadn't gone there" would be more commonly used than "Had I not gone there". If you prefer "If I hadn't gone there", then you should use it without any hesitation. I prefer "Ha...