Although I still feel anxiety around conflict and am still very much learning how to handle it in a healthy way, the number one shift that has had the biggest influence on how I show up in conflicts is my attitude toward them. When I went from avoiding challenging conversations and viewing...
Experiencing conflict in a marriage is normal, but if you and your spouse regularly argue and can’t find a solution, you may benefit from marriage counseling. A marriage counselor can teach you strategies for avoiding conflict and managing disagreements in a healthy, productive way. Loss of int...
National Ugly Mugs (NUM) is a UK-wide violence prevention and victim support charity that provides a mechanism for sex workers to share safety information and obtain support for harms that they may experience during the course of their work. Over the past several years, NUM has witnessed a de...
When we’re trapped in the cycle of seeking positive vibes and avoiding conflict, we’re not actually growing as people. Instead, we’re stuck in a negativity-avoidance cycle thatencourages us to abandon ourselves (and others) in times of need. Toxic positivity doesn’t give space for people...
WHY ARGUING IS GOOD FOR YOU; in the 21st Century We Are Used to Suppressing Anger and Avoiding Conflict, Especially with Loved Ones. but Nothing Clears the Air like a Full-Blooded Row, Says Andrew G Marshall
The financial and emotional toll of living as a “Nice Guy” is far greater than most men realize—until it’s too late. The silent cost of being agreeable, avoiding conflict, and suppressing your needs, while easier upfront, often leads to broken trust, lost respect, and relationships that...
When everyone in a group always agrees, it may mean they don’t have many ideas, or it may mean that avoiding conflict is more important to them than generating and evaluating new ideas. It may even mean that people who express new ideas are ridiculed, ostracized and driven out of the ...
当时的知识分子(the intelligentsia)得出的诊断是类似于这样的——这些灾难性的战争是由于把对国家的控制变成了一种零和冲突(a zero sum conflict)造成的,而不是 实现最重要的好和避免最灾难性的罪恶 的能力(the ability to realise the most important goods and avoid the most disastrous evils)。因此,我们应该...
Minimize conflict in multi-cat households by providing sufficient resources for every individual and not feeding meals in close proximity to one another. 4. Invasion of a Feline Intruder Cats living in groups usually display amicable behaviors toward each other. However, feline intruders (new cat wi...
Some reps think they're being helpful by backing down and avoiding confrontation, but it's important to bear in mind that conflict isnatural and productivewhen handled correctly. They need to be willing to embrace discomfort and handle testy sit...