Orrrr I see him in person and ask if he wants to roll by and visit and he says “yeah sure I just might” but never shows up and ignores texts. He sucks the life out of me because in person he can be a great friend and very charming , very present, ...
Whenever we have any disagreement (small or large) he immediately shuts down, is completely unable to cope with my feelings, ignores any opinion I have and immediately begins to feel sorry for himself – saying things like I’ll always feel like this, I will never be ok, I don’t know...
So you love a guy with low self-esteem. Sucks to be you. I’m saying that as a dude who used to hate himself. Who still kind of does. I know the crap you deal with. He must drive you nuts. I was in a relationship with an angel, let’s call her Mary. Mary was such a pur...