To free yourself from “should” shaming,(solidify) your decisions and show them the mental exit door when (negative) self-talk and “should” show up. Dealing with “should” takes practice, but it’s work (wo
I finally told him, tears flowing with emotion: “We were in love. I loved you SO MUCH. You broke MY HEART. You shattered it into millions of pieces. I left because I couldn’t handle the pain. It took me months to just be able to breathe again”. I even surprised myself with t...
have been trying to stay focused on the vast array of privilege we’ve had in the midst of a time when so many people have experienced such great loss and trial. I’m hoping if I can keep my gratitude in focus it will help me to do what I can to share the gifts we have as ...
MIN-HYUK (CONT’D) It’s heavy so I had to bring it on my bike. KI-JUNG What’s this? Ki-Jung lifts the flap to see a UNIQUELY SHAPED STONE and a wooden display stand inside. MIN-HYUK (to Ki-Tek) When I told my grandfather I was going to see Ki-Woo, he gave me ...
We were raised by our grandmother, older than time, hobbled now by the weight of passing years. She was Maya’s opposite: dark where my sister was light and I was grey, balanced precariously between the two, waiting for the scales to tip. Together we were whole. A family. This place...
Roger’s ashes are in Maui waters because that’s where we were most happy. After he died, I lived alone on Maui for 10 years with our dog, Charlie, and my heart eventually started beating again with the immensity of Aloha i.e. Love around me. ...
I cannot but think that the tennis and tramping and skating habits and the bicycle-craze which are so rapidly extending among our dear sisters and daughters in this country are going also to lead to a sounder and heartier moral tone, which will send its tonic breath through all our ...
When I was little I wanted an internet connected shack in the woods so I could hike all day and program all night.
“There is nothing which I dread so much as a division of the republic into two great parties, each arranged under its leader, and concerting measures in opposition to each other. This, in my humble apprehension, is to be dreaded as the greatest political evil under our Constitution.” ~ ...
When I Was A Boy In Truro Photos by Iory Allison My Grandmother used to read my Mother and her sisters “into” a book. By the time she had got through the first chapter or so her girls would be clamoring to race on with the story themselves. I have followed GrandMother Gwendolyn’s...