Whenwearehavingquarrelswithothers,itiseasytosayordohurtfulthingsinanger.Theverbalwoundcanbeasbadasaphysicalone.Andnomatterhowmanytimesyousayyouaresorry,orhowmanyyearspass,thescarofthosewoundswillstillbethere.Ifwearewise,wewillspendourtimebuildingbridgesratherthanbarriersinourrelationships.Onceuponatimetherewasalit...
The next time you find yourself thinking that your friend said something tactless or hurtful, try to see things from their vantage point. If you can't grasp their motivation or reasoning on your own, Abrahams suggests recruiting their help with three words: "Help me understand... " In order...
Girls tend to say and do hurtful things to each other more frequently than boys, and girls are more hurt by the end of a friendship. Boys are the living definition of the phrase 'peer group';they love games with rules, competition, and doing things together. Boys seem to enjoy, even ...
She smiled at me and replied, “If somebody says hurtful things to you, put it in the pocket with a hole. Let it go quickly. Then it won’t hurt you anymore. The hole is for all the problems that you don’t want.” After that, I have changed a lot. I used to be a pessimist...
Don’t Say Hurtful Things Back Your natural reaction might be to say something like: “Well, I hate you too!” Or, “Well, I wish I never had you! What do you think about that?!” But saying something hurtful in response sends your child the message that you are not in c...
But in all these ways of communicating, people sometimes write hurtful things. That is 【小题8】 many people think it is important to teach internet manners. Some schools and universities now teach students correct internet behavior. There are many rules 【小题9】 (follow). Today we will ...
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Haveyouevermetthatyourfriendsrunawayfromyouattheplayground?Itcanbehurtfulwhenthingslikethathappen.Youaren'talone.Manyfriendshipshaveupsanddowns.(1)FTalkhonestlyaboutyourfeelings.Youmaywanttoletyourfriendsknowhowyoufeelaboutthis.Youcouldstartbysayingsomethinglike,"Iseeyourunawayfrommeattheplayground.(2)ACanyou...
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78. “When we believe the best of people, welet goof each thing they do that is hurtful to us. And we choose to think things like, ‘I don’t believe they meant to hurt me.’‘Maybe they’re having a bad day or don’t feel well.’‘They probably don’t even realize how they...