That said, finding your forever person can also be super intimidating, according to psychologistDr. Mark Borg Jr. "What I find is the most common occurrence that happens — no matter how hard you've looked — when you finally meet your [soulmate] is: you freak out," he toldThe List. ...
Hi. I was a narcissist until I started smoking pot. It made me see everything differently. I started to care for everyone I knew. How they felt. Their needs. In every area. I have a son who I had always assured was loved tremendously, but didn't take much action to prove that. ...
Hi. I was a narcissist until I started smoking pot. It made me see everything differently. I started to care for everyone I knew. How they felt. Their needs. In every area. I have a son who I had always assured was loved tremendously, but didn't take much action to prove that. ...
Well, he’s not wrong. Meanwhile, Mi-so uses her free lunch hour to pay off a loan at the bank, accidentally signing the last payment slip “Secretary Lee.” She wilts when Young-joon calls her back to join him for lunch with his parents, but she runs back obediently and holds her...
Do you intend to marry her one day? A. Yes, of course. B. The decision does not depend on me. C. I'll have to discuss it with her. D. Yes, because she always puts me in a great mood. Rate this question: 5. Do you want her to like pets?
Turning a positive into a negative (e.g., something good happens to you and they devalue it, ignore it, and/or minimize it.) Narcissists and borderlines “win” by hurting others. It’s not a win unless they can take something from you, even if it holds no real value for them. ...
Pushing down my pain only works for so long. It has to come out at some point, and I do my best to ensure that it only happens when nobody else is around. That is why when I’m in robot-mode, I’m socially withdrawn and I try to isolate myself as much as possible. Masking ...
When it comes to any flirty behavior you might have observed in your spouse, don’t nag or blame. Putting pressure on your spouse can make the issue worse or make them shut down completely. The one thing you don’t want to do is snuff out your spouse’s spirit; after all, that’s...
My mother’s response was “No. You want to be her.” OK well yes that too. But I really wanted to marry her. Because as little kid, it never occurred to me that wasn’t allowed. I was bi. So I thought everyone else was bi too. Somehow I got it in my head that when you ...
It’s what happens when you (the parent) fails to build a life of their own independent of their children. They are resentful of where that has landed them (but will never admit it), they get much of their identity by being the victim (never ask my MIL how she is), and they traff...