Yet, as soon as you get to know someone a little better and ask him how he feels, he will probably tell you that he's feeling basically fine but that he's got a lot of stress at work, doesn't sleep well and has come over a little cold lately. In other words: He'll be more ...
Begin by asking him things about himself. Make him and his troubles the center of the stage, not you and your questions of war problems. If he is not wounded or tired out, you can ask him if he has been getting enough to eat; if he likes Western-style food. You can go on to sa...