“When I graduated, I wish I’d known the research showing that future success doesn’t lead to happiness. I sometimes got paralyzed by the fear that happiness existed only if I found the perfect job, degree or position.In truth, the research is clear: happiness exists down almost any lif...
Everybody has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is only when you accept everything you are, and aren’t, that you will truly find happiness and success. 自我价值来源于对自我的认可。所以自信一点吧。太多时候,...
reach success 取得成功 = achieve success e.g. Why do so many people reach success and then fail? And if we want to avoid "success-to-failure-syndrome", we just keep following these eight principles, because that's not only how we achieve success, it's how we sustain it. lead up to...
we shoot for happiness. And happiness is good, it's the expansion of self. You win a victory, you get a promotion, your team wins the Super Bowl, you're happy. Joy is not the expansion of self, it's the dissolving of self. It's...
The first lie is that career success is fulfilling. I've had a fair bit of career success, and I've found that it helps me avoid the shame I would feel if I felt myself a failure, but it hasn't given me any positive good. ...
To me, ultimate happiness is a journey, not a destination.Am I going to let the people who called me a monster define me? No. I'm gonna let my goals and my success and my accomplishments be the things that define me Bravery, perseverance, and humor: Once you have them...
In conclusion, introversion is not a hindrance or a liability, but rather a diverse and valuable trait that can contribute to one's success, happiness, and fulfillment. TED talks have shown that introverts can be powerful and persuasive communicators, leaders, and change agents, and that their ...
If you actually look at a great business, you'll nearly always see all of these three things coming into play. Really successful businesses -- Google is a great, great technological success, but it's also based on a very good psychological insight: people believe something that only does on...
We believe we should work hard in order to be happy, but could we be thinking about things backwards? In this fast-moving and very funny talk, psychologist Shawn Achor argues that, actually, happiness inspires us to be more productive.
【TEDTalks:The happy secret to better work】 (12m16s) We believe we should work hard in order to be happy, but could we be thinking about things backwards? In this fast-moving and very funny talk, psychologist Shawn Achor argues that, actually, happiness inspires us to be more productive...