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It's fun to talk about these messages now. Right? And it's cathartic to laugh at them. But I can tell you that it really does not feel good to receive them. At first, I would screenshot their comments and make fun of their typos, but this soon felt elitist and ultimately unhelpful...
where there are ongoing demands that are unmeetable expectations and unceasing demands. That is the formula, no matter what context it's in, for burnout. Your work is around the stress cycle and how we can complete it. So, will you talk a...
So on the subject of deception, I wanted to quote one of my favorite authors. 在造假的这个主题里,我想引用我最喜欢的一位作家的话。 In "The Decay of Lying," Oscar Wilde establishes the idea that all bad art comes from copying nature and being realistic; 在“谎言的衰变”中,奥斯卡·王尔德...
was to put the topic of failure on the table. 是把失败的话题放到桌面, To help our friends see that failure is something we must talk about. 去帮助我的朋友认识到, 失败是我们不应该回避的话题。 It is not a cause of humiliation, as it used to be in the past, ...
I am honest, I’m aware of the fact that I do not always take into account other people’s needs. When you are being criticized and it hurts, chances are big that this is rooted in your childhood. Maybe as a child you were never good enough. When you came home with a nine out ...
Get out there. Do what you want to do and do not accept no.The other one is self-talk. We all have a self-talk tape that plays in our head. Anybody go shopping and put on a pair of pants this week? If you’re a woman, the first thing that always comes: “Damn I look fat...
A growing body of fascinating research shows that attitudes towards aging affect how our minds and bodies function at the cellular level. When we talk to older people like this (Speaks more loudly) or call them "sweetie" or "young lady" -- it's called elderspeak -- they appear to instan...
I was in a, oh god god, please don’t ask me, please don’t ask me. We all have this negative self-talk that goes in our head. Guess what? There’s enough people that are telling us we can’t do it. That we’re not good enough. Why do we want to tell ourselves that? We...
the human ability to adapt, it's an interesting thing, because people havecontinually wanted to talk to me about overcoming adversity, and i'm going tomake an admission: this phrase never sat right with me, and i always felt uneasytrying to answer people's questions about it, and i think...