In our culture, with all the emphasis on sex, you wouldn’t think the matter of lacking sexual desire would be a big issue. And yet it is. However, no one wants to talk about it. Except, of course, the spouse who is having to beg for sexual intimacy with their low drive spouse. ...
Unfortunately, everyday life may be distracting us from sitting down and really listening to what our spouse wants to say to us. Taking time to give our undivided attention and truly listen, communicates how much we value them and the words they speak. 3. Read Aloud to Each Other Is there...
so I started taking a few at once.Sometimes I’d multitask while getting dressed (or undressed), or when taking a shower. Other times I would plan outfits, have my hair and makeup ready, and enjoy it. It was better to have photos ready to go than always have to drop what I was ...
If you always have gentle sex,explore new things together sexually. Sometimes, a couple’s sex life comes to a halt because of boredom or because one partner wants to try new things but is afraid to ask. Sitting down to talk about your fantasies or to create a list of things you’d ...
Understandably, no one wants to dwell on the thought of life without their loved ones, but it is a vital discussion that can make a huge difference at a difficult time in the future. Here are some tips to make having that conversation a bit easier: ...
No one wants to hear that even if it’s true. Nothing good can come from placing blame on someone else, and it won’t solve the problem. All it will do is cause furtherresentment and dislike.Instead try, “Let’s talk about how we can fix the problem.” ...
But, being married for 10 years we have had ups and downs, as all couples have but always had and still have goals, our goals! Living in Russia in one city and moving to Moscow, just to achieve a goal – no problem. Living in Moscow and starting immigration process to the States tog...
the time it is because I don't have the same opinion as him or because I don't get mad at the things that he gets mad at. He always tells me it is because he is tired and he don't want to talk about it. I tell him when he hurts my feelings and he gets even more mad. ...
My man is a #hardworkingman, and when he speaks to men’s groups, he reaches that tractor-pulling, contractor, get-your-hands-dirty-kind-of-man who wants to be the best man he can possibly be. I’ve sat in the back row during his sessions, and you can feel the energy and focus...
● Why do you always… Focusing on your spouse’s weakness rather than building on their strengths will only increase their weakness and diminish their strength. 4 ● 5 If you ask where your spouse wants lo go to dinner and he/she suggests a couple of places, then you select a di...