However, those damn water bottles shook my bag up and down like there was no tomorrow. A couple of minutes later, I was tired of going up those hills. Once I reached the finish line, I was happy because I never thought I would be doing this in my life. My Advice For First Time R...
Equally, if they start doing what you’re doing and copying your actions (this is called ‘mirroring’), they’re into you. Someone being friendlywill sit or stand much like a friend would – relaxed posture, leaning back, with no excessive touching of their face or hair. 5. They give ...
Sometimes toxic people will hide behind the defence that they are doing what they do because they love you, or that what they do is ‘no big deal’ and that you’re the one causing the trouble because you’re just too sensitive, too serious, too – weak, stupid, useless, needy, insec...
Reflecting back on this mission, even though I’m just freshly out of it (still doing debriefs, so it makes sense to discuss closure), I cannot help myself from thinking it’s been one of the best things that’s ever happened to me – is that too selfish when we’re talking about ...
CHRIS – so much of what I'm doing is WIP. I'd offer people in on the ground floor but need to prove templates a bit first. So, I'll fall back on some standby's – I have a loaf of homemade bread (tell me in general what kind you like and I'll surprise w the exact kind...
When you love them the way you loved them before the addiction, you can end up supporting the addiction, not the person. Strong boundaries are important for both of you. The boundaries you once had might find you innocently doing things that make it easier for the addiction to continue. It...
For those who wanted to hear my interview on Doctor Radio and weren't able to listen on Wednesday, here is a link to a downloadable audio file of the one hour show. Thanks to my brother, Mark, for doing this. That show leads directly into today's discuss
YOU. ARE. LEGION. You are not alone in writing a (usually beautifully written, well-spelled) note about how you are looking for someone to hang out with and maybe make out with and cuddle but without pressure or expectation o...
I’ve ended up doing a bit more leadership – refining of requirements, translating between idea-and-specification and the like recently, but still about 80% of time has been able to be sit-down-and-code, and that really is a pleasant holiday. What am I going to change? I’m ...
“Hey, I hope you’re doing well. I know this time isn’t easy for you, but I wanted to remind you that I’m always here to help or listen. I admire you so much and feel so inspired by your resilience. Call me if you want to talk or meet up soon!” ...