One of the GCSE poems I teach, ‘My Father Would Not Show Us’ by Ingrid de Kok is a poem about an (adult) child processing the death of her father, processing her mixed feelings of frustration as to why he didn’t let her know he was dying and grief of what life could have been...
And the point men miss about showing interest is that it’s only regarded as “harassment” if the woman is not interested. The problem being we don’t always know if she’s interested or not until we show interest. If a woman is then rude and nasty, she’s just a woman of inferior...