但实际情况是,一些适应不良的讨好者,在生活中已经不仅仅是简单地取悦他人,而是借着“做个好人”、“以他人的快乐为快乐”的名义,无法控制地讨好他人,下意识地牺牲自己,甚至对来自他人的赞赏和认可成瘾。当讨好无法得到期待中的赞赏和认可时,他们可能会进入被动攻击(passive-aggressive)的状态,也可能继续更加用力地讨好...
当讨好无法得到期待中的赞赏和认可时,他们可能会进入被动攻击(passive-aggressive)的状态,也可能继续更加用力地讨好,直到引起自己和他人的不适。 上述这些问题的核心,都指向一点——讨好者看不到真实的自我。他们从心底里无法欣赏和认可自己,不相信自己给予自己的肯定。从本质来看,讨好者的个人价值,是建立他们评价的。
但实际情况是,一些适应不良的讨好者,在生活中已经不仅仅是简单地取悦他人,而是借着“做个好人”、“以他人的快乐为快乐”的名义,无法控制地讨好他人,下意识地牺牲自己,甚至对来自他人的赞赏和认可成瘾。当讨好无法得到期待中的赞赏和认可时,他们可能会进入被动攻击(passive-aggressive)的状态,也可能继续更加用力地讨好...
Managing passive-aggressive people. (includes related article)(Employee Relations)Connor, Jeffrey C
Passive-aggression is anger, hostility, and/or learned helplessness in disguise. There are four subtypes of passive-aggressiveness. Source: Phovoir/Shutterstock The NYU Medical Center defines a passive-aggressive individual as someone who "may appear to comply or act appropriately, but actuall...
22.Passive-aggressiveadj.被动性进攻的; 23.Hostilities(Singular: hostility) [hɔsˈtilitiz] n.战争; 敌意(hostility的复数); 敌对状态; 战事 24.Subtly(Adverb, derived from the adjective: subtle) 英 ['sʌtlɪ] ...
While it is hard to analyze somebody else’s use of passive aggression, we can interrogate our own. If you notice yourself being passive-aggressive, dig into your own origin story.Have I always turned to this way of communicating? When do I think this started? In what ways does passive ...
Related:12 Passive-Aggressive Phrases That Can Destroy Your Business 2. Negativity. People who are negativemay see the world as cold and cruel. Because of this, they complain. A lot. Additionally, they have a tendency to ruin the fun by making depressing comments or acting in a defeatist ma...
4. Being marketed to by an aggressive doctor attempting to offer his items, you do not leave. One of the worst experiences that an individual can have at a chiropractic physician’s office is to have a chiropractic practitioner who will continually try to press you into buying products that ...
Some are passive, others more aggressive. Some work best alone, others crave companionship. We easily recognize that there is great variation among the individuals who live near us. Yet, when we speak of people from elsewhere, we seem to inevitably characterize them based on their country of ...