最近删掉了隐形虐待我二十几年的姐姐,原来那些假装出来的共情理解,在我低谷期给的小恩小惠,和我分享秘密给我礼物和信件,全部都是为了让我对她完全信任完全敞开以便用我的隐私背刺我。从小到大密切关注询问我的同性异性所有社交,背诵我提到过的所有朋友暧昧对象,不断侵犯边界感套取我的秘密,添加我的无数朋友试图变成...
In short, passive-aggressiveness is anger, hostility, and/or learned helplessness in disguise, expressed in a covert, underhanded way to "even the score" with the hope of "getting away with it." The perceived payoffs for the passive-aggressive are greater power, control, and neg...
a passive-aggressive individual may resort to covert means of manipulation, domination, and control in order to gain leverage. In a twisted way, one feels more powerful by agitating, frustrating, disappointing, and/or failing others.
Passive-aggressive behavior can be difficult to decipher and address. But it's possible to turn the tide with understanding, open communication, and the right strategies. The effort to confront these challenges head-on can lead to a more honest, respectful, and fulfilling relationship....
To all aggressives, life is a competition — and they despise losing. But the covert aggressive is in some ways the most dangerous type because they don’tlookaggressive. The teddy bear has claws. So what are their tricks — and what can you do to stop them?
Passive aggression can make a person feel powerful. It may be harder for others to call out subtler forms of acting out, leaving the aggressor to evade consequences at work and at home. The passive-aggressive person may see how effective covert aggression is and find that turning to more co...