But I’ve come to recognize those feelings always tell me that the person is looking backward at something that has already occurred. As soon as we’re able to create a clear plan for the future (a vision for a new life), those feelings quickly begin to dissipate and are replaced by h...
I write everything down and try to keep each project I am doing or planning on a separate sheet of paper. It is not an elaborate system, just a sheet for each project that I plan to do. I keep all the sheets in a simple folder. I call this folder my brain. It is an extension ...
that gives freedom for someone else who is grieving, no matter the length of time, to understand that each of us handles it differently. It may get less intense or tears may become less frequent, but there is no statute of limitations on grief. I wish someone had informed me 40 years ...