The death of a wife is one of the most difficult life events any husband can experience. The way men respond to this loss depends on their perceived role in society.
I never thought to look at this as my father-in-law using my husband as a replacement for the loss of his wife, this makes so much sense. I try to remember that. I realize, (thanks to many of your comments!) that I have to be more clear with my husband and father-in-law that...