I think Dear Abby said this a long, long time ago. I've always remembered it and I use it frequently in therapy. "We teach people how to treat us." How do we do this? By the way we treat ourselves. If we treat ourselves with respect we will be treated wi
Writing down his painful feelings helped to free Peter from continuously thinking of them. Writing and then talking with his therapist about his thoughts enabled him to let go of beating himself up in anger and also of drowning himself in self-pity. Peter meanwhile gradually began to find w...
The first time you make your stand against your parent(s), you'll have to fight against the urge to avoid further conflict and cave in. For me, this didn't happen until my third year of college or so. Yes, I know that is a very, very long time. I regret not going to any of ...
Also, sadly, it is a gift whose significance is destined to be lost on the victim, as that which a Dragon thinks is valuable is not necessarily so to a Viking. Chewed stones, sticks with mud on one end, half-eaten fish, helmets with arrows through them... These are all among the ...
Don't play the victim here or pretend that this is all because you'd be so lonely without him. Making friends, actual real friends, when you move to a new place isn't rocket science. You simply chose not to do it even though you can any time you want to. Same thing goes for ...
It can be incredibly tough to motivate yourself! Virtually everyone has fallen victim to laziness at some point in their lives. Working from home has made it more difficult for some people to have a good balance between work and personal life. It can be difficult to properly prioritize your ...
12. Don’t try to drown your sorrow. During the time that you’ll try to move on, you’ll probably be tempted to try drowning your obsessive feelings in alcohol or recreational drugs. You already know that this is a bad idea, but you need to be reminded because you might be just a...
You will make some mistakes but, if you learn from those mistakes, those mistakes will become wisdom and wisdom is essential to becoming wealthy. — Robert Kiyosaki 10 You can be a victim or you can be rich, but you can't be both. Listen up! Every time, and I mean every time, yo...
Kennebec River drowning probed ; Maine State Police seek to discover where and how drowning victim Amber Cobb, 31, entered the river.Rachel Ohm
OVER A BARREL –In the days before CPR, a drowning victim would be placed face down over a barrel and the barrel would be rolled back and forth in an effort to empty the lungs of water. It was rarely effective. If you are over a barrel, you are in deep trouble. ...