If you find that others avoid you or appear hurt around you, it’s possible that your behavior and actions are unkind. Learn how to stop being mean.
This isn’t an excuse to be mean to people. It’s just a reminder that you don’t have to turn into a chameleon, changing yourself just to fit in wherever you are. And pretending to be someone else is exhausting. How to Stop Being a People Pleaser So you’re a self-diagnosed peopl...
If you’re ready to stop saying yes when you mean no and start showing up authentically, these tips will help you take the first steps toward self-respect and emotional freedom. What is a people pleaser (and what are the dangers)? A people pleaser is someone who regularly puts others'...
How to Stop Being Mean to People is a common struggle in today’s world. We live in an era where everyone seems to be walking around with a megaphone, amplifying emotions and opinions. Seriously, just scroll through social media for a bit, and you'll see a cascade of sarcasm, biting ...
Unchecked, people pleasing behaviours can affect your physical and mental health as you are coping with constant pressure, guilt, and little or no downtime. They can also mean you never really take the time to get to know yourself. You owe it to yourself to shift the balance ...
go, relax, be taken care of, etc. will not remain silent as they are responsible for your basic needs being met. An internal struggle will drain you of strength, while your commitment and willingness to help others will decrease (which does not mean that you will give up pleasing people)...
So trying to please others pretty much all the time is often an even worse choice that one may at first think. But how can you change this behavior and stop being a people pleaser? This week I’d like to share 7 powerful insights and habits that have helped me with that. ...
When put like that, it’s hard to find an argument against being a “do-gooder.” Except that the difference between being a nice person and being a people pleaser is the long-term physical and mental harm it does to the person who is constantly giving, without replenishing their reserves...
What Do You Mean By “Introverted”? For many of us who want to stop being introverted, we are usually referring to a particular aspect of our personality in relation to something that matters to us. For example, I have helped people take action on their dream of performing music on stage...
How to Stop Being Pessimistic Are you pessimistic by nature? Do you see the negative in every situation and have trouble finding the silver lining? If so, it might be time to make some changes. Many people find it difficult to be optimistic, especially when things go wrong. But there are...