羡慕/嫉妒（envy）是 直接在两个个体间发生的情绪 ，一个人因为某种原因envy另一方。吃醋（jealousy）则是 在三个个体之间发生的情绪，A因为在意B，而对C产生了吃醋（jealousy）的情绪 。本文要讨论的“羡慕/嫉妒（envy）”、“吃醋（jealousy）”以及“羞耻（shame）”在一定程度以内时，都是人正常的天性。孩子从...
为了方便大家的理解,先初步为大家区分envy和jealousy:羡慕/嫉妒(envy)是直接在两个个体间发生的情绪,一个人因为某种原因envy另一方。吃醋(jealousy)则是在三个个体之间发生的情绪,A因为在意B,而对C产生了吃醋(jealousy)的情绪。本文要讨论的“羡慕/嫉妒(envy)”、“吃醋(jealousy)”以及“羞耻(shame)”在一定程度...
In her book,Glittering Vices, Dr. Rebecca Konyndyk DeYoung defines envy asfeeling bitter when others have it better. When I’m envious, I feel my own lack or inferiority more strongly when I see others who have it better. While many use “envy” and “jealousy” interchangeably, these ar...
2Befriend Your Fears People often overexaggerate the positive points of others while downplaying their flaws, especially in the cases of jealousy and envy. Rather than assume people are perfect, get to know them, suggests Therese Borchard, associate editor of "PsychCentral," in her article "Eigh...
This type of jealousy stems from a sense of ownership or control. You might feel threatened when your partner connects with someone else, believing that theirattentionor affection is something you should have exclusive access to. 2. Envy: “I want what you have.” ...
Jealousy is often confused with envy, but the two are actually different. You feel envious when someone else has stuff, relationships or titles that you want. Jealousy happens because you fear someone might take something away from you. Envy is when you’re upset or annoyed that someone alread...
In many cases, people use the words envy and jealousy interchangeably, though their meanings are slightly different. Envy is the experience of wanting what someone else has or wishing to be in their position. It’s usually focused on a desirable object rather than the person who has that ...
“Instead of recognizing the envy or jealousy inside them and being happy for someone else's success, they may be passive-aggressive to defend their ego against not having, being, or doing what the other person has, is, or does to create success.” Upbringing: Childhood experiences play a ...
A popular misconception about jealousy is that it is the same as envy. In fact, envious feelings involve wanting something that someone else has, such as a fast car or a house in the Hamptons. Jealousy involves the fear of losing something (a lover, promotion, friend, etc.) to someone ...
Financial envy is common — and sometimes destructive. Explore the cause of your feelings without guilt, then recognize and prioritize your own money goals.