根据前文Caring too much about others' views was energy-consuming and unnecessary.(过多地关心别人的观点是消耗精力和不必要的。)和后文Otherwise,you'll allow others' opinions to not only hurt you,but often discourage you.(否则,别人的意见不仅会伤害你,还会让你气馁。)可知,此处是...
take time to dwell on what you could be doing and experiencing if you didn't care at all what others thought. This doesn't mean you'll stop caring completely, but itwillgive you an opportunity to decide whatyouwould like to say
At the time, I didn’t express my own opinions with my writing becauseI didn’t want anyone to disagree with me. I wanted everyone to like me and agree with everything I said. It was like 3rd grade all over again! I was afraid to write about how I truly felt.I didn’t want to...
All I wanted was to stop doubting myself and trust my voice rather than look to everyone else for permission. What about you? You may have felt this way with a teacher, parent, or sibling, struggling to voice your ideas or opinions—strugglingto find your voice. I’ve coached thousands ...
[00:37:44] Now, that's not to say that there's not something to the idea of the kind of social capital that you can generate in the world by being a good person, by having good interactions with others, by caring about them, by, by doing favors, by showing up in positive ways....
happy. Generally, people pleasers are good at reading a room or situation. When they enter a place, they can sense the mood of the people there. Instinctively, they know what other people are thinking, feeling, or need. As such, they are good at caring for others and anticipating their ...
Now more than ever, thanks to the internet and social media, people have no problem being jerks and letting their opinions fly. The pool of negativity has grown larger, and deeper. It’s time to stop caring about what other people think … ...
Loneliness can also spread. A friend of a lonely person was 52 per cent more likely to develop feelings of loneliness. And a friend of that friend was 25 per cent more likely to do the same. Earlier findings showed that happiness, fatness and the ability to stop smoking can also spread ...
Takeaway If you sometimes find yourself caring too much about what others think, know that you’re not alone. This is a common concern that many people experience at times. As you think about your goals and what you want out of life, it may help to speak with a licensed therapist, whet...
Computer mediated communication has marked differences from the face-to-face context. One major difference is that, in the online context, we often have explicit access to others' opinions and these opinions are often the only informational cues available. We investigate if awareness of opinion cong...