managers, or other trusted advisors may be unethical, biased, corrupt, or incompetent by rejecting their advice. Rejecting advice outright can also risk social backlash or professional repercussions. This anxiety keeps many of us silent and compliant, leading us to follow advice we do not trust. ...
You say yes to everything that comes your way since you believe that saying no will make people judge you, think of you as mean, incompetent, lazy, uncommitted, ungrateful, biased, rude. You associate negative feelings with “no” and feel a sense of relief by blurting ou...
You can be selective in how and when you ask for assistance so as to not appear to be complaining, incompetent, or lazy. Also, you can make sure you reciprocate in the future when someone else asks you for help. Once you’ve asked for and received the help that you need, your list...
There are plenty of “free” streaming sites that have their content, and I am happy to no longer financially support a business that is this incompetent. Reply Jordan Mcniven January 12, 2016 - 2:19 am Im in Australia, looking into getting Hbo. Now i have an Xbox 1 and a Desktop...
A team member disagrees with your opinion. She thinks I’m incompetent. Your manager shares constructive criticism. She hates me. We take things personally all the time. Taking things personally evokes a strong negative emotional response—we feel hurt, rejected, insulted, disappointed, and let do...
According to RightNow'sCustomer Experience Impact study, at 82% the top reason customers would stop using a business was rude and incompetent staff. This was 18% more than their issue not being resolved swiftly. Despite this most businesses still use speed as their main measure of customer ser...
The ability to behave in ways that depend on the situation is an important skill to getting along in life. Introversion 5 Min Read Why Introverts Are So Often—and Unfairly—Overlooked Stereotypes about introverts mistakenly regard them as being cold and uncaring or wor...
Overusing a poker face can make you seem untrustworthy, incompetent, or unlikable. In many leadership scenarios, your team, peers, and clients need to see your reactions to feel secure and make informed decisions. To determine when to use a poker face, consider these questions: What is the...
This can make you feel unworthy and incompetent. The inner critic tends to use strong, harsh language, like "You're not good enough," "You'll never succeed," or "Why bother trying?" As it often speaks from fear, trying to protect you from potential failure or rejection, the inner ...
Perfectionism:Due to feeling incompetent, you feel a need to perform every task or project perfectly to overcome the feeling of inadequacy. Undervaluing contributions:You might undermine the worth of your achievements, contributing to an ongoing sense of incompetence. ...