You say yes to everything that comes your way since you believe that saying no will make people judge you, think of you as mean, incompetent, lazy, uncommitted, ungrateful, biased, rude. You associate negative feelings with “no” and feel a sense of relief by blurting ou...
You can be selective in how and when you ask for assistance so as to not appear to be complaining, incompetent, or lazy. Also, you can make sure you reciprocate in the future when someone else asks you for help. Once you’ve asked for and received the help that you need, your list...
She thinks I’m incompetent. Your manager shares constructive criticism. She hates me. We take things personally all the time. Taking things personally evokes a strong negative emotional response—we feel hurt, rejected, insulted, disappointed, and let down. Left unhandled, these emotions create a...
There are plenty of “free” streaming sites that have their content, and I am happy to no longer financially support a business that is this incompetent. Reply Jordan Mcniven January 12, 2016 - 2:19 am Im in Australia, looking into getting Hbo. Now i have an Xbox 1 and a Desktop...
The ability to behave in ways that depend on the situation is an important skill to getting along in life. Introversion 5 Min Read Why Introverts Are So Often—and Unfairly—Overlooked Stereotypes about introverts mistakenly regard them as being cold and uncaring or wor...
Overusing a poker face can make you seem untrustworthy, incompetent, or unlikable. In many leadership scenarios, your team, peers, and clients need to see your reactions to feel secure and make informed decisions. To determine when to use a poker face, consider these questions: What is the...
managers, or other trusted advisors may be unethical, biased, corrupt, or incompetent by rejecting their advice. Rejecting advice outright can also risk social backlash or professional repercussions. This anxiety keeps many of us silent and compliant, leading us to follow advice we do not trust. ...
The next time you’re about to tell yourself how stupid or incompetent you are, ask yourself: “Would I speak this way to my child (or anyone whom you love dearly)?” You probably wouldn’t. Because you do know how destructive it is. You just need to learn not to be such a ...
Perhaps there are certain people with whom you cannot accept any blame because doing so makes you feel inferior or incompetent. Whatever the case, knowing when, where, and why you refuse to take responsibility for your life and actions is an important step in addressing this issue. ...
Incompetent riding is another cause of bucking and rearing. If you are giving your horse confusing signals or if you are a heavy-handed a rider, your horse may very well respond by trying to throw you off. Be sure that your own skills are clear and understandable to your horse and that...