“Those were like bonding moments to me through a TV,” Big L said. “For those two hours they were playing, it was just me and him. It was humbling because very few people get that opportunity to sit in their cell locked in segregation and get to see your son playing on TV.” As...
If you’re going to prioritize fun, you need to make space for it to happen. The first step in making time is togive yourself permission to have fun. Many of us have been socialized to think of fun as self-indulgent or unproductive; we are convinced that our time would be better spen...
People will often say, be yourself. I challenge you to be your best self. Speak from the heart and genuinely want the best for others. How To Be a Real Man Step 4. – Be Loving Even if your best friend is as goofy as mine, love him and show him you care. Yes, the number 1 ...
For the memory errors: The computer shutdown immediately, came back up without a portion of memory, and did NOT say anything about it. This was on a Sunday morning. (no email to root, nothing in syslog, no shutdown.log, no stm entry). For disk errors: I ra...
“it’s how you choose to say it.” he’s using “toxic” in a modern context, the internet dating-app-slash-pseudo-therapy definition: selfish, dishonest, indignant. it was usher’s word choice, not mine. the back-to-back tracks “confessions” and “confessions part ii” get at the...
“Hmmm,” I thought to myself, “Allen wore a nickNOB, plus he wore a helmet while playing the field, plus he wore glasses, plus he’s among the relatively few players to have worn white shoes for two different teams, plus smoked while in uniform. How many other players can claim th...
this becomes a midlife crisis where they choose to blame others leading to numerous actions detrimental to self and other people. The rest choose to embrace the challenges and take responsibility for what they can control, which is ultimately how they live their life and respond to the circumstan...
I’m scared to let go. I’m scared of looking “uncool”. I can feel my self-judgement come up when I’m silly. Do I look weird? Does my face look strange? This is projected onto my partner in the form of, “They look uncool” but it really comes down to my own fear of wha...
This is the worst thing to do. If you want to know how to stalk on social media because you miss your ex, just stop here. Shut down your phone and go read a book or distract yourself in some other way. You’ll just get hurt. We never see things we want to see on social profil...
“Congratulations President Donald Trump. Ready to work together as we have done for four years,” French President Emmanuel Macron said.“With your convictions and with mine. With respect and ambition. For more peace and prosperity.” “On behalf of myself ...