For whatever reason, when loading the presets they actually do show the hair, and esp it comes from, in the side panel description on preset tab, but racemenu itself does not apply the hair slider to that hair. I always have to manually move the slider to the correct hair afterwards ...
When installing other skeleton animation mods, run LOOT or check your load order. Even if you don’t plan on using “RaceMenu” to craft your character’s face, I recommend using it for improved functionality with XPMSE and you might decide to play with “RaceMenu” in the future....