The point of calling someone out on their bad behavior is to get the person to realize that they are doing the wrong thing. That goal becomes impossible when the other person feels attacked because they will likely respond with anger or denial. They may also see no problem with their action...
It’s easy to tell other people how to behave when they’re being mistreated, and far more difficult to stand up to mistreatment when the one who’s abusing you is paying your bills or driving you to healthcare appointments that are keeping you alive. If you’ve been in a situation whe...
Even if you haven’t been good at setting limits or teaching your child to be respectful along the way, understand that you can decide to parent differently at any point in your life. When my son was in high school, he asked to go to a concert and we said “no” because, ...
It's easier said than done, but not taking her disrespect personally is the first step to regaining control over the situation. When someone disrespects you—especially your spouse—it's hard not to feel attacked. However, it's crucial to recognize that her actions may be more about her own...
When one has lost respect for one’s spouse, it is not unusual for them to stop listening to you. Ignoring your attempts at communication is apassive-aggressive wayto show a lack of respect as if what you have to say is not worth tuning into. ...
Have you been in a state where a family member insulted you, and you didn’t know how to confront it? Here are a few ways to tackle insults coming from family: Take it easy– We as humans respond to situations by three behaviors:fight,flight, andfreeze. When someone insults you, try...
Did he meet someone else? Was it the fact I didn’t immediately respond to his message because I was in an all day-workshop (even though I told him I would be in one)? I noticed how my mind continued to spiral as I wondered if I did something wrong, but then it occurred to me...
Emotional intelligence plays a pivotal role here. It involves understanding your emotions, controlling them, and recognizing the emotions of others. This awareness allows you to respond to situations rather than react impulsively. Logic comes into play in making decisions that are in your best interes...
‘Yeah actually. You can stop asking me where I go at night. K?’ then you can either respond with, ‘Sure baby – it’s totally fine with me if you leave the house smelling like man musk and secrets. Just come home when you feel like it hey. Do you want me to keep dinner ...
It really isn't for adults, especially not when talking to their wife or partner. It's easy for someone to compliment you when you are 'dressed up'. What matters is how someone treats you when you are feeling ill or tired out. That's when someone who loves you will love you anyway...