Potholes On The Moral High Road: How to Respond to BulliesDr. Cheryl Pappas
This can be a hard situation for teachers to counter, because many students are only echoing what they learn at home. Others may be repeating what has been done to them, as their parents, guardians or siblings may also be bullies. That’s why it’s so important for teachers to identify ...
For example, if a bully calls you a nerd to shame you, respond by letting them know you’re happy to be a nerd. You can say something like, “I love being one of the smartest students in class.” You don’t necessarily have to agree with what a bully says, but acting as you ...
Were you able to respond to that bully in a way that valued you? Here are seven keys to addressing an adult bully and giving them an opportunity to apologize.They might apologize, or they might not – I’ve experienced both. Either way, success is yours, because you have spoken your tr...
Know that some schools won’t always respond to bullying immediately, unfortunately. This is why it’s essential to find ways to prevent bullying that your child can implement right away. Look for things that can help build your child’s confidence and improve their well-being. For example: ...
Similarly, when actually confronted by a bully that leaves you confused and scattered do not react immediately. Visualize that you are pushing the energy of the bully off your chest and back onto him or her. This will help you quickly regain control and agency to respond. ...
“Bullying would no longer be accepted. It would happen again, but we would address it immediately. We’d know that each one of us has the power to stand up to bullies.” While most kids don’t have an army in pink standing by to help them battle bullying, there are plenty of ...
Augustine advises, “Stay calm and rise above. Take the higher ground and try to respond in a rational and professional manner. There's no point in trying to beat a bully at their own game, as it will only add fuel to the fire. Instead, address the conflict head-on by letting them ...
This isn't unique to roleplaying games, but it can be a buzz kill for players if it isn't brought under control. While there are books a-plenty on "how to deal with bullies," here's a way to address it that may help: First talk to this player, in private, and make it clear ...
Help your child understand that a one-time negative interaction isn't necessarily bullying. The key elements are repetition, intention to harm, and an imbalance of power. When children can accurately identify bullying behavior, they can respond appropriately and seek help when needed. ...