Subject: How I stopped my “introvert” shamingDear Jiaming,The other day you mentioned that you felt confused recently. It seems to me that you and I had similar issues. So I decide to write this letter to share with you what I’ve been through and how I deal with this problem.Accord...
Why Do You Want to Stop Being Introverted?It’s easy for me to say “just embrace your introversion, it’s who you are”, but I know it’s not that simple. There are good reasons why we might wish we could stop being an introvert. Especially when we compare ourselves with the ...
Click here to check out the Introvert Conversation Genius course. 2. Establish simple “do not disturb” signals for your coworkers. It’s not easy being an introvert in the workplace. But as you increase your awareness at your new (or longtime) job, try a few not-unfriendly techniques ...
As an extrovert, socializing energizes him; he gains something from being with others. As an introvert, socializing drains me; I feel depleted and taxed — and I end up with anintrovert hangover. We have to decide what is worth it and what’s not. A football game? He can go solo. A...
For instance, an introvert employee will have a different way of responding to compliments, while an extrovert individual will respond in a more animated manner. However, irrespective of what your personality is like, gratitude is the least you can express. ...
Often friends don't want to inappropriately impose on an introvert. If introverts want company, it is important for them to reach out. Source: Chad Madden/Unsplash Those of you who assert that you never get lonely, there may be nothing to see here. This post is for those who both value...
A shy person’s response to social rejection might become even more of an introvert. Remember: you could be the sweetest peach on the tree, but there will be people who don’t like peaches. Keep being your authentic self, and you’ll attract those who appreciate everything you bring to ...
Once you’ve taken a few tests and determined if you’re an introvert or extrovert, then you should know a few tips that can help you navigate the workplace with this knowledge. Make sure you have time to work on important tasks with complete focus, or simply take a much-needed break ...
To a dominant personality, getting things done, the way they want them done, is more important than manners or peoples’ feelings. But it’s possible that they really don’t know how much they upset other people. So try being as matter-of-fact as they are. And if you have an object...
When people picture a group trainer, they likely imagine an outgoing, exuberant performer – they think of an Extravert. They don’t imagine someone who is quiet and lacking in confidence. And that’s because most people misunderstand what being an Introvert means. Since you’re there to be ...