I think you should explain to you husband that this is something you need. . I know you’re concerned that you’ll seem whiny, but if you can’t whine to your spouse, who can you whine to? Since he loves you, he should want to do things that make you feel better. Don’t back...
Remember, not everyone is emotionally prepared to deal with such intense issues, so if they fall short of your needs, love them, forgive them and find someone else. One person’s inability to cope with the intensity of the emotion you’re burdened with doesn’t mean talking about it is t...