Can you see the victim mentality in that thought process? I stand by what I said in that post. Marginalized creators have no choice but to cater to the algorithm, if only to preserve their “brand.” This is especially problematic for chronically ill folks who have a finite amount of ener...
In victim mentality, I believe the world will never be a safe place to let down my guard. Rarely do I feel happy, because there’s no room for happiness under the umbrella of victim mentality. It’s time for a huge disclaimer. I am not saying don’t feel your feelings. We must fee...
When something goes wrong, someone whose default mode is a victim mentality won’t do anything to try to fix it. They complain about the fact it’s ruined, but they refuse to think constructively about how they could remedy it. They throw their hands up and complain and will find excuses...
“I have a victim mentality and nothing helps me. I’ve tried yoga, meditation, and psychotherapy, and have read tons of books. But I love to be miserable and not do anything with my life…only wanting to die and be angry at God. Yes, during this year of my life, I’ve made som...
as it was for us, we knew we had to respect his decision to handle as much of it as he could. In the end, the lesson he learned was that he wasn’t a victim; he was someone who could move forward out of a painful situation and get through it, proud of the way he handled it...
Being attached to our misery can arise in the form of avictim mentalityormartyr complex.So if you struggle with the tendency to wallow in melancholy (and even, if you’re honest, find yourselfenjoying itfrom a place of self-righteous indignation with the world), try to shift gears. Find ...
You can do this by shifting from a Victim mentality, to a Creator mentality, which I wrote about in great detail in this post:From Drama to Empowerment. What If You Don’t Want to Forgive? Is forgiving the only way to heal the hurt that someone else has caused you? What if the pers...
and then takes baby steps to start moving in that direction. If you’re ready to get out of the victim mentality and become a powerful Creator, or if you’re looking for a useful tool to help a loved one who’s always playing the role of the Victim, continue reading below. The ...
Nobody likes a victim mentality. “ Own” it. When you “own” it, you can change it. The choice is yours, and you empower yourself with skill. 46. Don’t play the same broken record. Find a new song. Whether it’s an excuse you tell yourself, or a story you tell yourself, or...
How To Be Truly Humble, And Why It’s Worth It Shake Off Your Victim Mentality By Taking These 5 Steps Bell Three We’ve all been around that person who feels the need to voice their displeasure. Of what? Everything! Anything someone else finds pleasant is trash. With every meal there...