The article reviews the book "Impossible to Please: How to Deal With Perfectionist Co-Workers, Controlling Spouses, and Other Incredibly Critical People" by Neil J. Lavender and Alan Cavaiola.EBSCO_bspPublishers Weekly
第一章 概述 “我真是个完美主义者” “I'm such a perfectionist” 72 2019-02 7 第一章 概述 能够正常运作的完美主义者 Functional Perfectionists 59 2019-02 8 指南:通向不完美的路 Guide-The Journey to Imperfectionism 71 2019-02 9 《如何做一个不完美的人》你知道你是个完美主义者You Know You...
Whenever I get lost in a perfectionist headspace I remind myself that it will cause me and my world harm. And so it become easier to switch my focus and thoughts because I want to avoid making destructive choices and avoid causing myself and the people closest to me unnecessary pain. 3....
Alternately, most across-the-board perfectionists are all too aware of the fact that they have this trait. Understand how you developed this trait Think back to your childhood and ask yourself some questions: Were either my parents perfectionists or was anyone else who played a significant part...
Harry Levinson, an American management psychologist, had catalogued problem bosses, from the bully to the indecisive jellyfish to the disapproving perfectionist. If you’re suffering from a bad boss, chances are he or she combines several of these traits and can be dealt with effectively if you...
Harry Levinson, an American management psychologist, had catalogued problem bosses, from the bully to the indecisive jellyfish to the disapproving perfectionist. If you’re suffering from a bad boss, chances are he or she combines several of these traits and can be dealt with effectively if you...
读过 How to Be an Imperfectionist For mental freedom, be apathetic about your current circumstances and potential results We covered unrealistic expectations in two areas: - Circumstances are what life's like right now (before action) - Results are what life could be like (after action) ...
Is the thing you are trying so hard to finish to a perfect level going to positively affect you in the long run? It pays off to be a perfectionist sometimes, but only when you are putting your energy in to something that is going to be really beneficial. If the project doesn’...
How to Be an Imperfectionist的创作者· ··· 斯蒂芬·盖斯作者 作者简介· ··· 斯蒂芬·盖斯(Stephen Guise)是个天生的懒虫。为了改变这一点,他开始研究各种习惯养成策略,从2004年起在美国各大自我成长类网站上发表了许多文章。2011年,他开始运营自己的博客Deep Existence,为读者提供自我成长策略方面的建议。
As aperfectionist, I have a tough time takingcriticismfrom anyone – no matter how loving the source. Why allow others to put their two cents in when I’m already dealing with an overly-critical inner self? But once the defensiveness subsided and I had handled the situation to the best of...