Do not dwell on the pain and hurt of “losing” a relative. Don’t focus on trying to grapple with the toxic relationships in your life. Build upon the positive ones you have instead. Accept the cards that life has dealt you and make the best of them. Live your life and cultivate yo...
I believe the best way to deal with toxic people is to not deal with them at all; to avoid them. In some cases it may not be an option, but more often than not, it is. This is why I encourage you to really think about the options you truly have with every toxic person in your...
toxic parent, and somewhere inside you where your wanted things stay hidden, is the wish that you’ll get from them what you weren’t able to get from your parent. Look at the people in your life and explore the similarities they have with your own parents. What do they do that’s ...
First time poster. Myself, DH and DS1 and DS4 are living with my parents for a few months while our house is being renovated. I don't have a good relationship with my parents and am struggling to cope living with them. For background, DB and I had a good childhood. They were the...
From very personal experience I can share with you that what actually tremendously helped me to cope with the constant and destructive trouble was committing my life to Jesus Christ, in Whom I became gradually more humble, more loving, understanding and forgiving, reaching a level of patience and...
9 ways to deal with a passive-aggressive mother Dealing with a toxic passive-aggressive mother can be emotionally draining, especially when you’re left feeling unsure about her true intentions. However, you can improve your relationship by setting boundaries and communicating clearly. Here are 9 ...
“Can anyone offer guidance on caregiving for toxic, emotionally abusive, financially dependent parents?” Refusing to Shower or Bathe The issue of elders refusing to bathe, change their clothes and maintain good personal hygiene is far more common than most people think. It’s also very frustrati...
Divorce or Separation: When a child’s parents divorce or separate, grandparents may step in to provide stability and maintain family connections. Death of a Parent: The surviving parent may limit or cut off contact with the deceased parent’s extended family. Child Welfare Concerns: If there ...
Learning to love myself and healing my relationship with my body is an ongoing journey. I’ve had to decondition myself from toxic beliefs, practice self-compassion, assess social relationships, adopt balanced eating habits, and redefine my self-worth. I am more than a body. As a mother ...
How to Cope When a Parent Uses Alcohol The emotional and psychological scars that children of parents with AUD can develop can last well into adulthood. If you have an alcohol problem and you have children in the home, please try to find help. ...