Sadly, perfectionists can’t delegate, meet deadlines, handle criticism or see the big picture. They’re scared of criticism and failure but the only way you can avoid those is by being ruled by those fears and not doing anything. And that’s when you really fail. Failure is a normal p...
2. Be a hard worker rather than a perfectionist. You can be a hard-working person and cut corners. In fact, it's often a requirement: Smart people cut corners. The art of being a star performer isknowing which corners to cut. Focus on your goals, and be honest with yourself about w...
Being a perfectionist will prevent from making your own decisions. The reality of perfectionism is that you will be weighed down by the thought of making the wrong decision, which leads to feelings of anxiety when you think you’ve made the wrong ...
Whenever I get lost in a perfectionist headspace I remind myself that it will cause me and my world harm. And so it become easier to switch my focus and thoughts because I want to avoid making destructive choices and avoid causing myself and the people closest to me unnecessary pain. 3....
2.11. Stop Being a Perfectionist 2.22. Break Down Your Goals Into Smaller Tasks 2.33. Keep Track of Your Progress 2.44. Have Other People Hold You Accountable 3Conclusion Why It’s Difficult to See Projects Through Whether it’s in or out of the workplace, seeing a project through to the...
Many perfectionists are sensitive to rank, status and dominance in social groups, which drives envy, jealousy and a desire to best others and turns everything into a competition. Weddings are a major milestone that change or reinforce social status; as such, people seek perfection to ridiculous...
Being a perfectionist comes in many forms and impacts us all in different ways. One of the most common ways that perfectionism creeps into our lives is when we rely on the opinions and validation from others to make us feel satisfied with ourselves. When we put too much focus on what othe...
Perfectionists are at risk of a particularly challenging journey when it comes to planning a wedding. Here's how to smooth the ride.
The first time that I suggest to a client that they are a perfectionist, they usually take it as a compliment. They assume it implies success, drive and being good enough. They soon learn that perfectionism is not usually a quality that is helpful to them. What is Perfectionism? Perfectio...
Also. Try to avoid being that competitive when it comes to things that don’t really matter. For example, there is no need to get the best grades all the time – studying is no competition. Celebrate Small Victories When you are a perfectionist, it’s hard to notice small victories becau...