If emotional intelligence is mostly about you and your internal universe, to be a great communicator is also, in equal measures, about those you’re communicating with. You need to know how to make yourself understood and to understand others as well. Become a master communicator 1. Avoid the...
“It’s silly, but making each other laugh is better than arguing,” says Arner.The Groonwalds each have their own triggers for flying, so they try to find humor in the thoughtless irritations, like being crowded at the luggage carousel or whacked by large backpacks. “The mantra has ...
Sometimes, trying to avoid a triggering situation is reasonable. However, if avoidance hinders your ability to function, you should seek help. Learning to cope with triggers you can't anticipate or avoid requires emotional processing, which is most often aided by therapy. The following are a fe...
Finally, you might have experienced instances when it is time to go to a party or event that your spouse isn’t too excited to attend. Your spouse is aware it is time to leave the house, but they may wait until the last minute to jump in the shower to get ready. They may seem to...
Avoid arguing the issue; instead, respect that this is a need to cope with emotions or memories. Also, if an activity needs to stop,show patience and understanding even if that means you will be left disappointed or dissatisfied. The priority is developing an atmosphere that is comfortable, ...
Whatever triggers your toxicity, whether it’s arguing with a spouse or not getting enough sleep, find your triggers and plan accordingly to prevent them. For more insight on how to deal with toxic people, head on over for more reading: 7 Types of Toxic People and How to Spot Them ...
People like to feel important. Give them what they want and they will love you for it. Again, it’s important that you do this with sincerity. People can easily tell when you’re just dishing something out for personal gain. Mean it when you say it. 8.Avoid arguing, and understand ...
Aretha’s sons spent five years arguing about which will reflected the true intentions of their mother. After a two day trial, the jury decided the 2014 will was valid. Oldest son Clarence wasn’t party to the litigation and received an undisclosed amount in a pretrial agreement. ...
Avoid contact with a master manipulator. Say no to being manipulated. Ignore the would be manipulator. Set personal boundaries. Set goals and you will notice if someone tries to manipulate you away from them. Assume responsibility for what you do. ...
People like to feel important. Give them what they want and they will love you for it. Again, it’s important that you do this with sincerity. People can easily tell when you’re just dishing something out for personal gain. Mean it when you say it. 8.Avoid arguing, and understand ...