本文翻译自TED演讲 How not to take things personally 你是否觉得自己比较敏感,比如你总会把别人的言语和行为放在心上,你开会说话的时候,看见有人看手机,就会觉得他不尊重你,觉得别人不重视自己开车的时候,只要后面按喇叭,你就会慌,你会觉得别人嫌自己肉,邀请一个朋友出去玩,只要对方拒绝,不管什么理由,你都会觉得...
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I decided to become a referee for two other reasons: one, to stay in good shape; two, because I wanted to learn how not to take things personally. I can see some people nodding; you’re probably thinking being a referee is the perfect envi...
Because when I take things personally, I'm convinced it is about me. I simply need to shift my focus from "me" to "we". If I try to see the intention of the other one, I make space for understanding instead of irritation. Seeing the positive intention of the other one requires a ...
two strategies to not take things personally: 1 It's not about me, look about the other person's intention. The speaker is hurt by someone using a smartphone during the presentation, then it might not be about him- the topic might not interest the listener or he might have received an ...
Seeing the positive intentions of the other person requires discipline and training. I became a kind of referee to train my brain not to take things personally.When the “It’s not about me” strategy doesn’t work, it usually means it is about me.Then, it’s time to use:...
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So these things are not the same. 所以这两者是不一样的。 So if you want more meaning in life, what is there to do? One, look for opportunities to participate in others' stories. And it's funny I'm saying this...
Don't take a negative response personally. So, I have a friend who, about a year ago, messaged me that he was really isolated and depressed. And I suggested some things for him to do, and he was like, "No, no and no." And I got mad, like, how dare he not embrace my brillian...