我们在生活中可能经常会因为别人的一句话或一些行为就会开始胡思乱想,而且通常会归因到自己身上,认为是自己做的不好,但实际上别人怎么说和怎么做,有自己背后的原因,且原因通常和你无关～希望这个视频可以帮你克服掉”想很多”的问题,让你的生活更轻松些～, 视频播放量
How to (Try to) Not Take Things PersonallySavvy Psychologist Ellen Hendriksen
本文翻译自TED演讲 How not to take things personally 你是否觉得自己比较敏感,比如你总会把别人的言语和行为放在心上,你开会说话的时候,看见有人看手机,就会觉得他不尊重你,觉得别人不重视自己开车的时候,只要后面按喇叭,你就会慌,你会觉得别人嫌自己肉,邀请一个朋友出去玩,只要对方拒绝,不管什么理由,你都会觉得...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnJwH_PZXnM#tedtalk# #英语口语# 【YT中文直翻,介意慎点】我们的大脑一点会产生5万个不同的想法,而其中只有一万个想法是积极的,也就是我们量产80%的消极想法 Frederik Imbo以前是一位足球教练,他的职业决定了他必须学会Not to take t
I decided to become a referee for two other reasons: one, to stay in good shape; two, because I wanted to learn how not to take things personally. I can see some people nodding; you’re probably thinking being a referee is the perfect envi...
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two strategies to not take things personally: 1 It's not about me, look about the other person's intention. The speaker is hurt by someone using a smartphone during the presentation, then it might not be about him- the topic might not interest the listener or he might have received an ...
If you have ever worked with new teachers, I am sure you have comforted them with “you can’t take what students do personally.” Unfortunately, telling someone to not take things personally doesn’t really teach them how. If you ARE a new teacher – or find yourself (as I do) mentor...
“Don’t take it personally” is to understand that the customer is not angry with you. Yes, they engage in a lot of heated arguments and things can become nasty sometimes. You need to understand that they are angry with the situation they find themselves in, not with you personally. ...
Seeing the positive intentions of the other person requires discipline and training. I became a kind of referee to train my brain not to take things personally.When the “It’s not about me” strategy doesn’t work, it usually means it is about me.Then, it’s time to use:...