I notice a trend: I got very close to past partners,losing myself in them entirely, and then emerged from the codependent haze terrified and self-abandoned.
How do I break the cycle? The short answer - don't do the same things. Change the way you react or interact with others. If someone seems attractive to you because he/she is all over the place, think twice. If you find it eerily similar to a pattern in the past, simply don't...