预订Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection 预订商品 作者:Julie Schwartz Gottman; John Gottman出版社:Harmony Books出版时间:2024年01月 手机专享价 ¥ 当当价 降价通知 ¥230.00 配送至 北京 至 北京市东城区 服务 由“中国进口图书旗舰店”发货,并提供售后服务。
I encourage softened start-up (a la Gottman) with the “I feel, I need (basic need – safety, reassurance, to feel as though my words matter), I want (this thing to happen)” structure. I also want to try the writing next time this occurs in my office. 0 Reply Dorothy Hyde ...
The Gottmans’s latest book,Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection, is SELF’sWell-Read Book Club February pick. We recently caught up with the couple by phone in the midst of a winter storm at their home in Orcas Island, Washington. “We have as much time as ...
Studies fromThe Gottman Instituteshow that it takes five positive interactions to overcome any one negative interaction. In other words, if you say something that is extremely hurtful, on average it will take five positive gestures to try to compensate for that. If you do make a mistake or sa...
Whenever I’ve gotten into a big fight with a partner I’ve always been the one to be as adamant as possible about the fact that I’m right. In fights, I despise nothing more than being wrong, so I’ll try to stick to my guns for as long as possible, even if it means dragging...
Dr. Julie Gottman describes how to maintain calm in the face of negativity here: When faced with such negativity, you can try saying something like, “I’m not trying to criticize you here or put you down. That’s not what I want to do. I really care about you and I really ...
“Couples who are successful adopt the motto that, ‘If you’re hurting, the world stops and I listen. I’m with you.'”(The Gottman Institute) This is also true: “Regardless of the habits you saw growing up and those that may have characterized you for most of your life, you can...
《预订 Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection》,作者:预订 Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into ConnectionJulie Schwartz Gottman; John Gottman 著,出版社:Harmony Books,ISBN:9780593579657。