Infidelity is usually defined as sexual contact with someone else. But some argue that deceiving one's partner is itself a form of infidelity. Under this definition, fantasizing about someone else while making love to one's partner could be considered "cheating." Yet radical honesty is...
A healthy person who has natural fantasies about someone will not get himself into trouble, while a porn addict who keeps fantasizing based on his porn past will only make things worse. My opinion is that once you start to recover, if your mind starts fantasizing on its own, without being ...