曦姐姐很耐心的解释说:“就是要对对方的反应敏感,但是不要觉得都是你的原因。不要take things personally. 男生有些就是很awkward, 他们也不想的,但是非常自信的alpha male并没有你想象的那么多,这跟你本身没什么关系。Take me for example, I rarely spent time over thinking why others do what they do....
曦姐姐很耐心的解释说:“就是要对对方的反应敏感,但是不要觉得都是你的原因。不要take things personally. 男生有些就是很awkward, 他们也不想的,但是非常自信的alpha male并没有你想象的那么多,这跟你本身没什么关系。Take me for example, I rarely spent time over thinking why others do what they do....
(其实我脆弱死了我都是装的,还好我fake it until make it🥸 Do not take things personally(aka处理好自己的自尊心,aka处理好内心的受害者情结,aka别矫情)是职场心法很重要的一课。 不过,Do not take things personally,也需要注意不要走两个常见极端: 1. 麻木压抑; 2. 被PUA。 这两个尤其对女生有害。
因为你在这里遇到的游戏关卡,将不仅包含职场技能,还有专属于你的,且你绝对逃不掉的人生功课 - 比如,自我价值感,安全感,自尊心,边界问题,Shadow self等等。 其中自尊心,就是关于那篇“do not take things personally”。展开来说的话,这个话题可以写本书。从最表层的职场交往中来说,上级或者同事、合作伙伴,不希...
I've learned not to take things personally. We can get offended by anything if we want to. It's not hard to hurt someone's feelings; all they have to do is believe what the offender is saying to be true. No one knows me like I know me, and therefore, no one can hurt me. —...
我坦率地震惊了它工作了以及它。[translate] ado not take it personally 正在翻译,请等待...[translate]
Back then two wise friends on the CTC Board separately gave me almost the same advice. “Don’t take it personally” they said “People who know you understand your values and your passion for cycling. Hang on to what you believe and find ways to let it come out.” ...
Personally, I like both. Group chats are fun and lively, especially when we're all together andbouncing ideasoff each other. But I also value one-on-one conversations cause they allow fordeeper connectionsand more personal discussions.
Kristen Kromer Staff writer
aPersonally, I do not support this view . Even in the past, greed and selfishness existed in our society. These two factors never disappeared since human have instinctive material needs, individual wants and desires would swell surely with the advances of life and society. Moreover, old ...