Punishments occur when the little breaks the foundations (which they’ll typically do on purpose!). If the little behaves herself, she could also be rewarded, and the rewards could be anything from a day trip at the zoo to a big cuddle to toasted marshmallows – principally something the li...
Karsh notes that setting boundaries and rules before you play is also key. Everyone needs to feel safe within the dynamic for it to work. “Though physical safety is always important in kink, reconstructing our ideas of mental safety is also important before engaging in DD/lg,” she says....
DD/lg Rules, Little Space, and Other Ideas DDlg revolves around wanting to please and fearing disapproval, so rewards andpunishmentsare vital. Therefore pats on the head and forehead kisses mean a lot, and spankings are usually a must. In addition, keeping the attitude of “Daddy knows best...
The rules are meant to look out for the little’s best interest of the little. For example, setting a bedtime hour, saying please and thank you, having a no-swearing rule, and so on. Punishments The caregiver may “punish” the little when they are “bad” by withholding activities or ...
Not only that, but the things that make one ‘good’ are also subjective depending on the sub, how one handles pre-defined boundaries and rules, and how they communicate with each other. Objectively, being a ‘good’ dom encompasses: ...