“helping” by putting others down, telling them what they’re doing wrong, or blaming them for things. He often doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries (walks in without knocking, borrows your stuff, takes credit for your work). In his eyes, he can do no wrong....
Luckily, life is never absolute. We can be this way, then that. Time may be a construct, but as sure as the sun crosses the sky, the time, like daylight, falls away from us. As your time slips away today, ask yourself if you’re using it as best you can. Not compared to othe...
You have more than you can imagine. And many of them, if you take ownership and responsibility, have a good chance of getting him to change. Others will result in your being happy even if he does not change. Either way, you have choices. You are not relegated to a miserable life beca...
Sounds all too familiar, Apple LOVES blaming others for their issues. In the Android universe even the cheapest phones come with 120 Hertz panels. Not LTPO ones, but is that neccessary for the base iPhone models? Not really. I think most people would prefer a toned down AOD feature since...
Normally we thrive on blaming others, which is a form of self-pity. Can you and I, then, bring about in ourselves without any outside influence, without any persuasion, without any fear of punishment - can we bring about in the very essence of our being a total revolution, a ...
intense almost leading to hospitalization but not quite. There was one night, when I had to sleep propped upright so I could breathe that I thought “if this gets any worse I’ll need to go to the hospital” but thankfully that was the worst moment for me – not for many others, ...
”He said in tears that he wanted to run with the others, so I let him go on. 15 he fell, but each time 16 himself up. The same thing happened every day for weeks, and Michael gained strength both 17 and physically.By the last week of practice, Michael could run the mile without...
(Conversely, it is also common for depressed people to overly externalize the causes of their misfortune, exaggerating the role of others and therefore blaming them. This is depressing because it entails lack of control, andfeeling powerlessis depressing.) ...
To___things up, Kiah started trying out harder workout videos. Unlike previously blaming herself for her failure, this time, she started from a place of___. “When I failed, I was more willing to___myself and say, ‘What can I learn from this?’” Over the next year, Kiah...