这种时候,你很有可能就是收到了对方的“被动攻击”(passive-aggressive behavior)。这是一种“敌意”的不直接的表达,有时通过拖延对你的回应,有时通过顽固不化,有时通过反复地、故意地在本应由ta负责的事情上犯错、失败。我们今天要讨论的就是,当被动型攻击的人处于一段亲密关系中,以及作为伴侣的你应该如何应对...
passive-aggressive是个非常流行的单词,不过最近几年在美国的误用越来越高,引起不少人的重视,在解释它的错误用法,让大家引以为戒,我们不妨来看看它的正确用法,从字面上解释,passive是被动的,aggressive是进取的,有攻击性的,合在一起就是“通过被动的方式来攻击”也就是相当于“以退为进”、“以守为攻”。而它...
Passive-Aggressive Behavior Is Useless In A StartupBrad Feld
Withholding communication or affection is a common type of passive-aggressive behavior. For example, rather than expressing anger outwardly, your partner may refuse to talk to you when they’re upset. If you or your partner have a pattern of withholding affection or communication or withdraw...
Understanding the “why” of the behavior matters There are different flavors of passive-aggressive behavior and different psychological impulses behind them. It often comes from a place of fear or lack of confidence. It can especially get complicated if the passive-aggressive individual has developed...
阅读:Passive-aggressive Behavior (消极攻击行为) 消极攻击行为是通过以不明显的方式抵制履行他人的合理期望来表现出与某人意见不合、愤怒或怨恨。 听力例子: 大约一年前,教授生日的时候计划在家里举办一个小聚会,只有一些朋友和亲戚。但教授最爱的姐姐...
IP pairings who fail to be O & H may find themselves entrenched in a passive-aggressive power struggle.Since INTPs and INFPs are both inner J-types, they can be stubborn and insist on their own way of doing things I generally feel INTPs are better off pairing with another Intuitive type...
purity and goodness but once given a taste of power, quickly abuses that power. The fanatic impresses people with their drive and dedication but fail to deliver on what they promise. The passive aggressive charmer will be overly nice on initial interactions but gossips behind the backs of ...
When we hear the term “aggressive,” we probably imagine physical attacks or someone who is verbally harsh. While this is a direct form of aggression, passive aggressive behavior is simply indirect aggression. Rather than confronting an issue head-on, passive aggressive people will use covert be...
Peeling back the layers of interaction can reveal subtle, hidden cues of passive-aggressive behavior. Here, we delve into 13 illustrative examples, each shedding light on how this destructive pattern manifests itself within intimate relationships. ...